I just consider it a strange place to draw the line. Of course, you're entitled to draw your own personal lines wherever you see fit, but I don't find the 'rectifier' to be all that different in my own mind from the gratuitous and senseless violence, or the idea of simple nudity in a game. I often find myself wondering why we, meaning North America primarily but also most of the western world, as a culture find it acceptable for a video game to involve driving through crowds of innocent pedestrians, glorifying and perhaps even generally celebrating extreme violence, but nipples are bad? What?
Now, I'm not coming down on the violence. I find it wonderfully cathartic, perhaps because I find the line between fantasy and reality is very clearly drawn for me. When I was a kid (I'm 40 now), my parents never actually had to explain to me that Wile E. could survive fall off a high cliff because he was a cartoon; I just knew that pushing my sister off the roof (and damn, was I tempted sometimes...younger siblings, right?) would not work out like it did in the Loony Toons.
Obviously rape in the Real World is a horrible and heinous thing. So is murder. Slow sexual and physical torture leading to death has to be among the worst things I can imagine, and we must all be aware that human trafficking is a very real thing. Why do I bring this up? SR3, but I don't think I've ever read anyone being overly critical of much of the implied sexual violence going on in Safeword, at least before you rescue Zimos and take it over. There were plenty of women in cages there, but I guess it's okay since the Boss and the Saints freed them. Maybe. Is it ever clearly stated? Still, it was in there. Personally, I loved it, I got a kick out of the way Volition handled it and I laughed my way through the mission where Z 'sells' you in order to get the Boss in there.
The Reality of rape and Fantasy of rape aren't even the same thing (just google it, lots of real psychology articles out there on the subject of rape fantasies). I remember seeing Dr. Ruth Westheimer speak about rape fantasy many years ago, but I won't elaborate as it would really drag this already long post out and away from the core topic. I will simply offer this
not 2 year old tweet from the ever amazing Dr. Ruth.
What I'm getting at here is that fantasy is fantasy. If it's not happening in reality, then it's not real, therefore it's only fantasy. No real anuses were probed with a real "rectifier" (at least, I sincerely hope not), so it's just really stupid, grimace, grit your teeth and laugh fun. Pixels, just pixels.
Censorship, as always, is a
very slippery slope. I am adamantly opposed to it in all forms because of that very reason. Once you start to censor things, especially because it "might" offend "someone", it can become difficult to stop. Naturally, perception and reception are going to be important factors, and I don't mean to suggest that game developers (or movie makers, authors, artists, musicians...you get the picture) should just do whatever, heedless of the ramifications, but they shouldn't let these things hold them back out of fear, either. Sometimes taking a chance is what is needed for progress.
I really want to see this lifelong love of mine, video games, get to the point where it can be treated, and viewed, with the same maturity and breadth as movies and books. I
never want to hear about a video game sex scene as a scandal again (Fox news and Mass Effect 3, for anyone who doesn't know). It boggles my mind that Volition 'has' to put those censor bars over the Bosses genitals, and I don't just mean for the women, the men too. When I'm playing a male Boss and he's running around buck ass naked I
want to see his junk swinging in the breeze. Sort of. It's a principle thing.
Self-censorship is always the best option. By this I don't mean the creators, I mean the audience. If something offends you, don't view it. Turn off the television, put down the book, don't buy the game, or, as I believe the OP in question already concluded, just don't use the offending 'thing'. No matter what, just so long as there keeps being things out there for us to disagree on and debate with civility, I'll consider myself lucky (not to live in North Korea).